How Not to Screw Up the First Date

Ever wonder why it's so easy to make one single mistake that ruins your chances of getting into a relationship with a new woman? It doesn't even matter what the mistake is - you always say or do something that gives the worst first impression possible. Is there any way to avoid messing things up between you and a potential partner?

Here's the thing - there's a key difference between the way men and women act, think, and feel when they meet a potential new partner.

Women act, think and feel this way towards you: "You're interesting, and it would be nice to know you better."

On the other hand, you (and probably a billion other guys) act, think, and feel this way towards her: "I'm so interested in you that it's making me nervous. I'm already thinking of you as my potential girlfriend or wife... or one-night stand, at least..."

Am I right?

In other words, women are cool and casual whenever they meet a new guy. They're open to the possibilities of a relationship, but they don't actually hope things work out that way. After all, it's up to you to prove to her that you're worth the space in her life. Makes sense, doesn't it?

On the other hand, you're secretly talking to yourself in your mind and judging everything you do, making sure that every little thing you do should be something that'll convince her to like you. It's exactly this nervousness, this nagging impulse to do everything right, that ultimately makes you screw up the first date.

So if you want to avoid screwing up the first date with a new woman, don't think this way. Stop thinking of her as your future girlfriend. Stop thinking of her as perfect. In fact, do the opposite - and think that there's always something about her that's going to annoy you down the line.

Yup, you'll need to be so comfortable around her that you can make fun of her without caring what she'll think of you. Of course, you're not supposed to be mean around her, but being cocky and funny at the same time is definitely more interesting than if you tried to be stiff, polite, and formal all the time.

I know it sounds crazy, but have you noticed when you act like that to women you're not attracted to, they seem to like you more and more? Same goes for women you like - if you can make her laugh, she'll find it easier to open up to you. And when she finds you more interesting every time you meet, you'll know that you're definitely doing something right.

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